Award-winning Ghanian journalist Serwaa Amihere has voiced concerns about an emerging trend where some women place undue financial demands on their partners. In a recent statement, she highlighted the importance of self-reliance and mutual respect as key ingredients for building healthy and sustainable relationships.
Serwaa observed that certain women, upon entering new relationships, tend to shift their financial responsibilities to their partners. This often includes expecting men to pay for essentials such as food, rent, grooming, and clothing. She likened this behavior to that of individuals seeking total dependence, which she believes can discourage well-intentioned men.
A strong advocate for women’s independence, Serwaa urged women to avoid this approach. While acknowledging that mutual support is natural in relationships, she warned that complete financial reliance on a partner can strain the bond and hinder genuine connections.
“If you meet a man who loves you this 2025, don’t use ‘I haven’t eaten’ as an excuse to chase him away. Try and eat in your own house,” she wrote on Instagram, offering a lighthearted yet poignant piece of advice.
Serwaa also stressed that independence empowers women to make decisions that serve their best interests and fosters relationships built on equality and respect. By maintaining self-reliance, women can contribute to healthier dynamics with their partners while also cultivating personal growth and confidence.
Her remarks have sparked conversations about the balance of responsibilities in relationships, encouraging both men and women to build partnerships rooted in mutual support and respect.
